Q & A
You Don't Know Jack
That’s a really good question! The short answer is yes.
But the longer answer should be a warning to anybody who stretches themselves too thin. When I was a new Reservist in the Navy, a senior pilot in my squadron told me that being in the Reserves involved juggling three competing priorities: your civilian job, the Navy, and your family. At any given time, two were going to be upset with you. The key was in rotating them around.
I think the same can be said for anybody who pursues their passion while also having a full-time job and a family. But I think the advice I’d been given as a Reservist wasn’t quite accurate, because there’s a fourth priority that gets overlooked all too often: your health. Without your health, you can’t be the husband or father your family needs, and you certainly can’t fulfill the requirements of your job or meet your publisher’s deadlines.
So, while I still juggle competing priorities, I’ve learned to put myself first. I make sure I get adequate sleep, workout on a regular basis, and fit in writing or traveling to book stores in between flying a full schedule with my airline. But I’ve also had to learn “balance.” I’m not the writer who gets up before the sun or stays up into the wee hours of the morning just to reach a word count goal. I’ve learned to set aside dedicated time for my wife and kids.
But it’s a work in progress… even with the best of intentions, sometimes I need to remind myself to throttle back and coast.
And, yes, sleep. Eight hours a night.

